Day 11 of 30

As a dedicated mental health advocate and counsellor, I’ve come to value just how powerful open, honest conversations about mental health can be. This November, I’m embarking on a 30-day writing journey, sharing a new mental health article each day, not only to raise awareness but to raise funds for Movember.

I know sleep is essential for everything we do, yet, to be honest, I haven’t been doing a great job at prioritising it lately. Like many, I could come up with countless reasons—or excuses—why my sleep routine has fallen short. It’s been an incredibly demanding period in my life, and the impact on my mental health and wellbeing has been undeniable. Running a small business is a fulfilling experience, but it’s also one that can take a toll on your sleep. Switching off after a long day or winding down over the weekend often feels like a luxury rather than a necessity.

We’re constantly told that quality sleep is key to good health. But when stress, pressure, and endless to-do lists invade our minds, winding down can feel nearly impossible. Unfortunately, sleep is often the first thing to suffer. Yet, science and lived experience both remind us that our mental resilience, mood, focus, and overall mental health are intricately tied to our sleep habits. As part of Movember’s mental health initiative, here’s a deeper look at why sleep is so crucial for mental health and practical strategies for prioritising it even during the busiest times.

Why Sleep is Essential for Mental Health

The Mind’s Repair Process

While we sleep, our brains engage in vital repair and recovery processes. From forming memories to processing emotions, sleep gives the mind time to manage stress, regulate mood, and improve cognitive functions. Studies have shown that individuals who consistently lack sleep are more susceptible to mental health challenges, including anxiety, depression, and emotional instability.

Enhanced Stress Management

When we’re well rested, we’re better equipped to cope with stress. Lack of sleep, on the other hand, can make even small issues feel overwhelming, contributing to a cycle of sleeplessness and stress. A restful night allows the mind to recalibrate, giving us a fresh outlook and the emotional resilience needed to tackle challenges.

Sleep’s Role in Emotional Regulation

Quality sleep supports our ability to regulate emotions. Research has revealed that those who experience sleep deprivation are more likely to react negatively to situations and have difficulty managing their emotions. This effect can be particularly tough on small business owners or anyone juggling multiple responsibilities, as sleep deprivation can lead to emotional burnout and increased anxiety over time.

Personal Challenges in Prioritising Sleep

As someone who manages a small business, I know firsthand how the line between work and rest can blur. The demands are relentless, and often, it’s the late-night hours that seem to offer the quiet needed to get things done. Yet, I’ve realised that continually pushing off rest can come at a steep cost to my mental and physical health. Acknowledging the struggle is the first step; it’s essential to recognise when the lack of rest begins to affect our mood, focus, and wellbeing.

Strategies for Reclaiming Quality Sleep

If you’re like me and find sleep slipping down your priority list, here are some strategies that may help to reclaim this vital aspect of mental health:

Establish a Nightly Routine

Create a calming pre-sleep ritual to signal to your mind that it’s time to wind down. This could involve activities like reading, meditating, or journaling. Consistency in your bedtime routine helps reinforce a sleep schedule, making it easier to fall asleep and wake up at similar times each day.

Limit Evening Screen Time

Melatonin, the hormone in charge of sleep, can't be produced as a result of the blue light that phones and computers emit. Try to set a boundary of no screens at least one hour before bed. Instead, consider reading a book or engaging in a relaxing activity that doesn’t involve digital screens.

Manage Stress Through Mindfulness

Practising mindfulness or engaging in breathing exercises can reduce stress levels and make sleep easier to achieve. Techniques like deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation help to calm the nervous system, allowing both body and mind to ease into rest.

Seek Support When Needed

It’s essential to open up about mental health, particularly when struggling with stress or burnout. Talking to someone—whether it’s a counsellor, friend, or support group—can help relieve some of the mental burdens that may be keeping you up at night. In sharing our challenges, we often find better coping mechanisms and accountability for prioritising rest.

Sleep as a Foundation for Mental Health

Sleep is a cornerstone of mental wellness. By allowing ourselves to rest, we’re not just recharging physically; we’re equipping our minds to better manage the stresses and complexities of daily life. Quality sleep provides a foundation for improved emotional resilience, greater productivity, and a clearer mindset, all of which contribute to better mental health. As we continue through Movember, let’s remember that one of the simplest, yet most impactful, ways to support our mental health is by getting the rest we need. I will also make my sleep a priority during this busy time to regenerate and rejuvenate my mind and body, ensuring that I am better equipped to handle whatever challenges may come my way. Prioritising sleep is a powerful act of self-care that can have a profound impact on our overall well-being. 

These articles tackle vital topics related to mental well-being, many of them drawn directly from my own experiences and insights gained through my work in Bent Couch Counselling.

Movember’s mission is to support men’s mental health, address prostate and testicular cancer, and prevent suicide, which is a cause close to my heart. My personal connection to Gay Fathers Worldwide has encouraged me to raise $10,000 as part of Movember. I encourage you to donate here to an incredible cause.

By sharing personal perspectives and strategies over these 30 days, I hope to foster deeper understanding and connection around mental health issues. This project is about more than just reading or writing; it's about taking action.

I hope sharing my experience can be a guide, perhaps even a comfort, for others on a similar path.

At Bent Couch Counselling, we understand the complexities of getting a good night’s sleep and can offer guidance tailored to your unique journey. If you’re ready to take the next step towards understanding and managing sleep, feel free to reach out and book a Complimentary Consultation today with Shaun. He provides a safe space of empathy and understanding during his counselling sessions and will happily call you back at a time that is convenient for you.