Frequently Asked Questions

  • Counselling is a space where you can talk openly about what has been weighing on you and begin to understand it more clearly.

    You do not need to have everything figured out before you start.

  • The first session is a chance to talk about what has brought you here and what you might need.

    We move at your pace. There is no pressure to share more than you feel comfortable with.

  • No. Many people begin counselling because something does not feel right, even if they cannot fully explain it yet.

    We can make sense of things together over time.

  • Bent Couch is designed specifically for gay and queer men, with a focus on connection, identity, and the experiences that often go unspoken.

    Many of the men I work with appear capable on the outside but feel disconnected underneath. This space is built to explore that honestly and without judgement.

  • Yes. Sessions are available online across Australia, as well as in person in Melbourne.

    This allows flexibility depending on what feels most comfortable for you.

  • Yes. In person sessions are available in Melbourne on Tuesdays.

    Details are confirmed once your appointment is booked.

  • Counselling can support a range of experiences, including:

    • Anxiety and ongoing stress
    • Burnout and emotional exhaustion
    • Loneliness and disconnection
    • Identity and life transitions
    • Relationships and intimacy
    • Shame and self-worth

    You do not need to fit into a specific category to begin.

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  • Yes. I work with gay and queer couples who want clearer communication and a stronger emotional connection.

    This includes navigating conflict, intimacy, trust, and relationship structure.

  • No. You can talk about your sexuality at your own pace.

    There is no expectation to come out before you are ready.

  • Yes. This is a non judgemental space where you can talk openly about sexuality, intimacy, and relationships.

    You do not need to filter or edit yourself here.

  • That is very common. Most people feel unsure before starting.

    The first session is simply a conversation, not something you need to prepare for.

  • Individual sessions are $160 for 50 minutes.
    Couples sessions are $220 for 50 minutes.

    Invoices are sent after each session with 7-day payment terms.

  • I do not have a provider number.

    Some private health funds may offer rebates, so it is best to check directly with your insurer.

  • Yes. I work with self managed and plan managed NDIS clients.

    If you are unsure, you are welcome to reach out before booking.

  • Yes. Your privacy is taken seriously and sessions are confidential.

    There are some legal limits to confidentiality, which are explained at the beginning of the process.

  • You can begin with a free 15-minute discovery call.

    This is a chance to see if the space feels right for you before booking a full session.

    Book your discovery call here

  • It is completely okay to feel uncertain.

    You can take your time, or begin with a short discovery call to see how it feels to talk.