What are the 5 steps of CBT?

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Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a highly effective form of psychotherapy that has been widely used to treat a variety of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and PTSD.

I use this therapy in my counselling practice and the techniques of CBT are designed to help individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviours. In this article, we will explore these five steps further and how they can be applied to improve your mental health.

Step 1: Identify negative thoughts.

The first step in CBT is to identify negative thoughts. These are often automatic thoughts that occur in response to specific situations or triggers. Negative thoughts can be irrational or distorted, leading to emotional distress and maladaptive behaviours.

Techniques for Identifying Negative Thoughts

Journaling: Keeping a thought diary can help you track your negative thoughts as they occur. A tip here is to be as specific and detailed as possible when writing down your thoughts, including the situation that triggered them and the emotions they evoked. Additionally, pay attention to any patterns or common themes that arise in your negative thinking to help identify underlying beliefs or cognitive distortions.

Self-monitoring: Pay attention to your internal dialogue throughout the day. These internal dialogues may look like self-criticism, self-doubt, or catastrophic thinking. By becoming more aware of these negative thought patterns, you can start to challenge them and reframe them to promote a more positive mindset. Remember to practice self-compassion and patience as you work on changing your thought patterns.

Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness meditation to become more aware of your thought patterns. You don't have to know how to meditate; it can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths and focusing on the present moment. Mindfulness can help you observe your thoughts without judgement, allowing you to let go of negative thinking and cultivate a more peaceful mind.

By identifying these negative thoughts, you can begin to understand how they impact your emotions and behaviours.

Step 2: Challenge Negative Thoughts

Once you have identified your negative thoughts, the next step is to challenge them. This involves examining the evidence for and against these thoughts and considering alternative perspectives.

Techniques for Challenging Negative Thoughts

Socratic Questioning: Socratic questioning is a method of challenging negative thoughts by asking yourself questions that help you evaluate the validity of your beliefs. By asking yourself questions like, "What evidence do I have for this thought?" or "Is there another way to look at this situation?" This can help you see things from a different angle and break the cycle of negative thinking.

Cognitive Restructuring: Replace irrational or distorted thoughts with more balanced and rational ones. This can be done by consciously reframing the negative thought into a more positive or realistic one. An example of this is changing "I'm a failure because I made a mistake" to "Making mistakes is a normal part of learning and growing." This process can help shift your perspective and improve your overall mental well-being. By practicing this regularly, you can train your mind to automatically challenge and restructure negative thoughts in the future.

Behavioural Experiments: Test the validity of your negative thoughts through real-life experiments. For example, if you have a fear of public speaking, you could gradually expose yourself to speaking in front of small groups to challenge the belief that you will always fail. By gathering evidence that contradicts your negative thoughts, you can build confidence and change your mindset over time. Remember, changing negative thought patterns takes time and effort, but with persistence, it is possible to break free from them.

Challenging negative thoughts helps reduce their power over your emotions and actions.

Step 3: Replace negative thoughts with positive ones.

After challenging your negative thoughts, the next step is to replace them with positive or more balanced ones. This process is known as cognitive restructuring.

Techniques for Replacing Negative Thoughts

Affirmations: Create positive statements that counteract your negative beliefs. For example , if you catch yourself thinking, "I'm not good enough," replace it with, "I am capable and deserving of success."

Visualisation: Imagine positive outcomes in situations where you typically expect negative ones. This is a powerful technique that can help rewire your brain to focus on the positive possibilities rather than dwelling on the negative. By visualising success and positive outcomes, you can train your mind to think more optimistically and proactively in challenging situations.

Reframing: Look at situations from different angles to find a more positive interpretation. An example of this is reframing a setback as an opportunity for growth and learning. This shift in perspective can help you see challenges as stepping stones to success rather than obstacles in your path.

Replacing negative thoughts with positive ones can lead to improved mood and healthier behaviours.

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Step 4: Change maladaptive behaviours

Negative thought patterns often lead to maladaptive behaviours that reinforce emotional distress. These maladaptive behaviours may be avoidance, self-sabotage, or unhealthy coping mechanisms such as substance abuse. By identifying and changing these behaviours, individuals can break the cycle of negativity and move towards healthier ways of coping with challenging situations. This can lead to improved mental well-being and overall quality of life.

Techniques for Changing Maladaptive Behaviours

Behavioural Activation: Engage in activities that bring you joy or a sense of accomplishment. For example, you could try picking up a new hobby, spending time with loved ones, or setting small, achievable goals for yourself. By actively participating in positive activities, you can begin to shift your focus away from maladaptive behaviours and towards healthier coping mechanisms. This can help improve your mood and overall well-being over time.

Exposure Therapy: Gradually expose yourself to feared situations in a controlled manner. By facing your fears in a safe environment, you can learn to manage anxiety and reduce avoidance behaviours. This can help you build confidence and resilience in the face of challenging situations.

Skill Training: Learn new skills such as assertiveness or relaxation techniques to help you better navigate difficult situations and manage stress. Developing these skills can empower you to effectively cope with triggers and maintain emotional stability in the long run.

Changing maladaptive behaviours helps break the cycle of negativity and promotes emotional well-being.

Step 5: Maintain Progress Through Practice

The final step in CBT is maintaining progress through regular practice. This involves consistently applying the techniques you've learned even after therapy sessions have ended.

Techniques for Maintaining Progress

Regular Review: Periodically review your thought diary and progress notes.

Booster Sessions: Schedule occasional follow-up sessions with your therapist.

Self-Care Routine: Incorporate self-care practices into your daily routine, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies.

Maintaining progress ensures long-term benefits from CBT and helps prevent relapse into old patterns of thinking and behaviour.

Cognitive-behavioural therapy offers a structured approach to addressing mental health issues by focusing on changing negative thought patterns and behaviours. By following these five steps—identifying negative thoughts, challenging them, replacing them with positive ones, changing maladaptive behaviours, and maintaining progress—you can achieve significant improvements in emotional well-being. The techniques of CBT are versatile tools that can be adapted to suit individual needs, making it an effective treatment option for many people. Whether you're working with a therapist or practicing on your own, understanding these steps can empower you on your journey towards better mental health.

If you or someone you know needs support with Cognitive-behavioural therapy, don’t hesitate to reach out and book a free Complimentary Consultation today. Together, we can build a stronger, more resilient community.


Shaun Williams

Shaun Williams is a licenced ACA counsellor dedicated to the LGBTQIA+ community and the founder of Bent Couch Counselling. With over 20 years in healthcare, Shaun specialises in LGBTIQA+ mental health, relationship, and personal issues.

His work extends to group facilitation, creating supportive spaces for men and leading 'Gay Fathers Worldwide'. Active in LGBTQIA+ advisory roles, Shaun's unique life experiences enrich his empathetic counselling approach.

Connect with Shaun for a free 15-minute discovery call to explore your path to wellbeing.

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